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The Courage to be Disliked

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‎”A healthy feeling of inferiority is not something that comes from comparing oneself to others; it comes from one’s comparison with one’s ideal self.”

‎-Ichiro Kishimi, The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness

‎Compared to others, that’s a mistake.

‎That’s a mistake because instead of improving yourself, it’s a competition with others.

‎It’s a competition because the goal of those people comparing themselves to others is to win.

‎There is no such thing as winning in this life.

‎Yes, there is a competition, but there is no such thing as the winners of life because there are only those left behind.

‎If you are left behind, it doesn’t mean you are a loser.

‎If you are ahead in this life doesn’t mean you are the winner.

‎Sometimes those losers are winners.

‎That’s why comparison is a sin.

‎The alternative is treating life like an infinite game because the goal of that game is the constant improvement of yourself.

‎How can you improve today than yesterday?

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