
”People who are harder to love pose a challenge, and the challenge makes them easier to love. You’re driven to love them. People who want their love easy don’t really want love.”
-Rachel Kushner, The Flamethrowers
Some people are easy to get but others are harder to get.
It turns out that those people who are easy to get are maybe people who really don’t need love, they just want to feel the pleasure of love.
By feeling the pleasure, they all need something that gives them satisfaction, and not passionate love.
I talked about this last month when discussing Serotonin, in which the chemical will be released.
The kind of feeling that you attach to a certain kind of person leads to obsessive thinking and attachment that leads to despair, sadness, and heartache.
The result will be, you become foolish about love.
Instead of making you smart and becoming the foundation of what you do, it destroys you.
None of us wants that to happen, but instead, love is the foundation of what you’re gonna do, not obsessive thinking and attachment.

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